squeezing

squeezing life-times



you'll get used to my 

two-fisted sweetness...i'm sure. and i've been bass-ackwards long since before you

EVER came along.

and i will give sufficient warning when appropriate,

sound crass, brassy and stereophonic-typ i cal

when i say i am

c o m p l e x

high maintenance

self-destructive

moody and given to extremes...




i am confident that i will make your life a living hell,

weave dreams about your cranium,

fuck up more times than necessary to prove to you that

i am indeed

just slightly on the verge of be-leaving i'm one

psychotic pup, one sporadic chicken and

thoroughly melodramatic with

enough issues for a magazine rack:

abandonment commitment...genuinely

genuflecting on how fuct up my parents

have made me over the years...




my father and my mother had only two children together

eighteen motherfuckin' years apart from one another;

my theory?--

they couldn't stand to touch each other...

and on one extraordinarily chilly night in February he crept drunken and slovenly into the sheets and she reluctantly gave his beer and corn-liquored body access to hers maybe by mistake maybe half-asleep maybe so bewildered that he wasn't wielding open hand a closed fist...or axe, that for one moment she allowed herself to forget about the rape at twelve, to forget her parents gone, her daughter distant, her sisters scattered about the country in random and neglected cities, and her own future forsaken for a life with a man that she could not love nor leave and for one moment she allowed herself to feel a burning in her snatch an itch that she herself could not scratch-- and i was the happy accident.




i gave her hope? i let her go on?




i don't mind internal bruising. heart murmurs, soft spots, birth marks, in-ies/out-

ies, or the other varying matriculating signs of being

cannonballed out

into this world for the wrong circumstances. never-ready.

but i am getting older and sick of this shit.

one last year for teen angst and living "afterschool specials"...

and this is already getting trite.

i don't mind

my words being perceived as

excessively feminine. confessional. "new phase in his poetic development"

the books may some day read.

i will never know what makes an audience in front of me

hear rhythms patterned in my words the lilt and timber of a sibilant-s-plagued but

slightly bass voice.

we are sources of boundless inspiration. us "poets."

we are supposed to write for ourselves, not the audience.

we tell our experiences in the hopes to shock souls and crack lies and articulate fear

and sharpen

the weapons that are our forked tongues.

speak truth. speak plain. touch tongue to teeth and teeth to breath and breath to force it

out again...the stories of a convoluted past, tweaked with madness and all

that

post-modern failed family values jazz.




none of this makes any sense. we squeeze whole life-times into

six-second glances and twenty minute readings.




i will never be able to explain

why any audience listens to me rant.

i will never be able to explain

why my childhood never began but is not over.

i will never be able to put into words

the way i feel when i wake up next to you in the morning wrapped up in

your white flesh against my tan and scarred first-light persona...




and i suppose i will never realize just what i did to you

to make you love me the way you seem to do.




maybe it was, as you say, the way i phrase things.

maybe it is the way i stand up in front of strangers in the dark and tell

the story of one life, or our lives, or our sex life...

we are all tangled masses of last-minute angst. umbilical chords of over-joy,

regret...bad metaphor and emotional asphyxiation.

walking, functioning fetuses with a bit of trauma on our backs

and a few pills each day just to keep us going...

just to keep us going.




but when i get up on that stage.

when i go down on you.

or when i visit my brain-tumored newly-sobered father in the home or spend

summers in the house that i grew up in with my mother

who may have missed her chance at a more promising career than

M O T H E R...

when i acknowledge how scared i am of loving you

and when i tell that to the world, to large numbers of anonymous strangers

in a candlelight and smoke-infused room

i fill these hollow whispers

as best as i know how...




with our only defense...from the day we are born:




with complaint

and with screeching sound.









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